Houses

Okay, watching House didn’t exactly make me feel better.  I’ve come to expect that every song worth listening to is about love, sex, or having lost one or the other.  I understand the overall goal of a show is to eventually hookup the main character and have them be happy… unless they get cancelled which leaves it basically hanging with no real closure.  That said for fun and I know that someone who complains about trying to not have a relationship, but in reality is starved for one shouldn’t be looking on craigslist claiming its just for fun.  I ran across this one ad and I quote “has to be decent looking, job, licence, car and a place or working on getting one”, granted the qualifications don’t exactly set the bar too high, but I do sort of feels sorry for her.  Hell, when I read this personal ads I feel sorry for all of these people… in one or another they are all damaged like me.  You can see it in their photos that they post in the ads most people look depressed, lonely, and slightly suicidal.  I know these people don’t exactly arrive at that point overnight, but that’s why I don’t do one night stands; because I don’t want to contribute to the problem.  Also a lot of women that post ads on craigslist have kids, and there are not a lot of guys who are willing to put up with that, which I do feel sorry for them.  On the other hand I understand the guys not wanting to have to raise some other guys kids and having to deal with the problem daddy when he does show up.  It happened to me once I thought I’d give this woman a chance and on taking her back to her place I meet her ex (and her baby daddy) waiting outside for us to come home.  I felt sorry for her and thought no guy wants to put up with this, no guy should have to.  Maybe down the line if the guy knows the girl a little bit better, but not on the first date.  On the other hand if a guy has a kid, he tends to be a chick magnet, and women tend to eat that kind of stuff up because it shows that he “steps up” and takes care of it “like a man”.  I know women reading this think my observation of the problem is whats wrong with the world; but it’s not my world, it’s just how it works.  Men think differently from women.  Women like the bad boys, but when they finally get tired and want the nice guy, having a kid with the bad boy and the good guy having to put with it isn’t what the good guy really deserves.  This is why some women who’ve made the wrong choice and want to change can’t, plus a good guy doesn’t deserve and shouldn’t have to put with being a second choice.  To sum it all up, the bad boy gets the girl in her prime and the girl expects the good guy to clean it all up after her spirit is broken.

P.S. women don’t be shocked when a good guy answers your personal online, bad boys pick girls up in bars and everywhere they can.  Good guys typically get whats left and are normally quite shy, so don’t expect to find a wild and dangerous guy online via craigslist.